I Booked My Boudoir Experience at Aged 62… I Feel Better Now Than I Did in My 20’s!

Diva Stories
Written By Jo Menneer

What is your name and age, Diva?

My name is Heather and I'm 62 years old.

When did you come in for your first Boudoir Shoot? What made you decide to book?

My first Boudoir experience was November 2022. I was nervous and did not know what to expect but I wanted to do it and tick it off my bucket list. I'm so glad I did. The whole team were warm, welcoming and instantly made me feel at ease.

Tell us - what was the moment you saw your photos for the first time like?

When I saw the photographs for the first time in the viewing suite with Jess I was speechless.  Jesse had certainly brought out the best in me, they were fabulous. I could not believe it was me. My body looked amazing. It was hard choosing which Boudoir photos I wanted for my wall art and an album as there were so many fab ones!

Confidence is a big thing - in fact it is everything. How has your confidence elevated who you are in different areas of your life - for example has this confidence affected your relationship or your career?

Confidence is a big thing. I have had my fair share of ups and downs, like anyone else. However, after becoming widowed and being on my own, it seemed that feeling confident became even more difficult. There were more bad times than good, then Covid hit everyone hard. During this time, I decided I wanted more out of life so I changed my image. I had tattoos done, grew my hair, gave up work, signed up to an online dating site and turned into a bit of a rebel!

As you were here last time, we spoke about the importance of not diminishing ourselves; of how so many women - through different reasons - start telling themselves they are too ‘old’ to feel desirable or sexy in themselves… Has your boudoir experience shifted how you see this?

Oh God yes. I don't act my age, I like to have fun,  go out and do daft things with good friends and look good for the man I'm seeing. If you act as though you are old, you will look and be old.

What stood out or surprised you about this experience?

How amazing my body looks at the age of 62. I can honestly say, it did not look this good when I was in my twenties!

How does your artwork make you feel?

Absolutely brilliant. I have artwork in my bedroom so it’s the first thing I see when I wake up. It sets me up for the day. I can’t wait to collect the next album and show my partner and my friends. 

Do you have any last messages you’d like to add? What would you like to say to any Divas considering booking?

Yes I do. To anyone out there who is thinking they would like to do a photo shoot but lack confidence - DO IT, JUST DO IT! You will be amazed at the way it will make you feel.

I'm finally proud of my body and I'm not afraid to show it off. To the right people of course!

Jo Menneer
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